A LITTLE CURIOSITY. AN HONEST CONVERSATION.
Before we play.
What interests you? What’s off the table?
What would help you feel good about it?
Start with yourself. Then, if you choose, bring someone into the conversation.
PERSONAL EXPLORATION
Get to know your own yes.
How to use this
Giving and receiving are separate questions. Neither automatically means dominant or submissive. Use “not applicable” whenever a direction does not fit. Experience does not establish skill, and interest does not establish consent.
“What do you mean by that?” is a useful next question. Agree on specific activities, intensity and boundaries before an encounter. Do not introduce new activities or increase agreed intensity during play; discuss changes afterward for another time.
Some listed topics carry substantial risks and require more than a checklist. Listing a topic is not an endorsement or instruction. Any role-play involves consenting adults; bystanders also need to consent to involvement.
You may revisit an experience afterward and talk about anything that felt uncomfortable, confusing or outside what you agreed to.
You can leave anything blank. Hidden answers remain in your draft; review what you include before sharing.
THE REST OF THE CONVERSATION
What helps you feel safe and cared for?
Off by default. Otherwise answers live only in this page until you close or reload it. A saved draft is readable by others with access to this browser profile. Both modes and imported partner answers are saved when enabled. Downloads are unencrypted files.
TWO PEOPLE. TWO SETS OF ANSWERS.
A place to start talking.
Each person fills out their own copy, reviews it and downloads a partner file. Open their file here to compare giving with receiving in both directions. Nothing is sent automatically.
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Hard limits and “not today” take priority. Only two explicit yes answers appear under shared interests. Curiosity, conditions and uncertainty need conversation. Fantasy-only remains fantasy-only.